Always Remember to be Kind….

 

Happy Tuesday Kittens! I hope y’all are having a great week so far!

I just wanted to share something a little personal about me.

Ever since I was little girl my parents always instilled in me to be kind to people. I was taught to treat people with kindness and respect.

My parents taught me how to treat other people, but I learned I had to teach people how to treat me.Β One of the worst feelings is being kind to someone and not receiving it in return. I used to be a very reactive person, if someone was unkind or rude to me. I made sure to express my displeasure in the loudest, most disruptive way possible. I guess you could say I would go a little crazy.

As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized that being so reactionary is a complete waste of time and energy. I can not control how people treat me, but I can control how I react. I just don’t react anymore, if someone wants to be unkind to you, please don’t go “crazy.” You can simply walk away and focus on all the beautiful things in your life. For example, I have chosen to focus on growing my business, being happy, and loving the people that matter most to me.

You can be kind to people, but sometimes they won’t let you for whatever reason. Don’t Β allow their actions to destroy your peace, life is too short. Β Just put on your highest heels and walk away.

There are no regrets it’s their loss, not yours! ❀️

Feel free to let me know what you think in the comments section.

Always remember to be Fierce, Fabulous, and Fearless! *Muah*

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Don’t Be Mad, Get Off Your Ass, and Do Something…

Hey Everyone! Since it’s a new year I have decided to embark on a new blogging journey and incorporate other parts to my blog. As much as I love fashion( I truly do) there are so many different parts to me.

My name is Jennifer Amber, I graduated from the Β University of South Carolina with a Bachelor’s Degree in History. Β I am one semester away from a Bachelor’s Degree in Theatre, a year from a Bachelor’s Degree in Broadcast Journalism, and last DecemberΒ I graduated with my Associate’s Degree in Nursing. Needless to say, I don’t believe in complacency, I was raised to always strive for excellence and personal growth. I’m always looking for ways to become a better version of myself.Β 

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WHAT DOESN’T KILL YOU!!

Bears Will Kill You!

As I sit down and write this blog I’m feeling such an array of different emotions. I’m excited, I’m nervous, overjoyed, and petrified. I’ve always been interest in fashion, I live it breath it, and I’m pretty sure I would eat it if I could. I’m utterly obsessed with it. I love putting outfits together and I’ve never been afraid to try a new fashion trend. Whether I’m pairing a graphic t-shirt with a high waisted skirt or wearing a crop top/skirt ensemble. Fashion is my one true love.

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Sometimes Change is all you Need!

I feel like one of the greatest things about life is that we are able to change anyΒ  and everything about ourselves.

Lately I’ve been feeling like I’ve needed a change in my life, but I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. I was getting ready for class one day and I looked in the mirror and it hit me. I needed a new hairstyle, that is the quickest, cheapest,Β  and easiest way to change one’s self.

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